A Few Words

As I sit here trying to catch up with my blog, I am thinking about the more somber Christmas Season we've had this year.  It started with my Grandpa passing away before Thanksgiving, and attending his funeral in early December.  While I know he isn't in pain anymore and lived a full life, and likely very happy to see relatives that have passed before him, I'm sad for me.  And I'm sad that my children never knew him like I did.

The week following his funeral, a lady from church that I knew from Primary in her mid-fifties also passed away.

And the following week, Cannon Copeland (you can read his mom's blog here) left his all-too-short mortal sojourn due to Menkes Disease at the tender age of 3.  We know his family from church, and his mom Natalie helped throw my baby shower before the twins were born.  The lives and examples of the Copeland family as they have shared their life with Cannon have touched everyone they have come in contact with.


While we do as a family like to celebrate the more "fun" aspects of the Christmas season, this year it's been a bit different.  We've had quite the reminder that life is short, and some things are more important than others.
So, let's celebrate the birth of our Savior.  Let this time of year be a reminder that He is the one who has borne all for us, and is the way and the path that leads us back to our Father in Heaven.

Families are forever, and I am so thankful for that.  I'm thankful for temples so my family can be sealed together even after this mortal life.  I'm thankful for the Holy Ghost, and the peace I can receive when my heart aches.

Ward Christmas Party

This is just our Santa Father Christmas photo taken at the end of the Ward Christmas Party.

Best White Elephant Gift

Ryan's Ag Teacher district had their annual Christmas dinner and White Elephant exchange.  I made this little beauty for him to take:

"Shave and Play Barbie"

It was the hands down, best gift given, he said.

Gingerbread Houses

We were given a gingerbread house kit with 4 little houses for 4 little girls.  So, this afternoon after church, we got it out and attempted to put together gingerbread houses.  And then, I tried to put gingerbread houses together.  Eventually, they kinda held up long enough for the kids to decorate.

 The finished products:

And then the kids ate them.

Parade Night

I think this may have been the coldest night for our annual parade that we've been to.  If not, it was right down there with the lowest of the low.  My roommate from college Jauna has always wanted to ride in a parade float, and this was the year it worked out that she could come and ride on Ryan's FFA float.

Poor Jauna's family.  I wonder if they've forgiven her yet.

Ryan's parents were in town, and kindly offered to sit with our girls in their car and watch the parade from the high school parking lot.  Some years it would have been impossible to see the parade route, but not this year.  The turn out for the parade was quite low compared with last year, thanks to the frozen weather.  I think our daytime high was 20 degrees.

Ryan was given a big tractor to pull his float this year, on a loan.  This thing cost at least as much, if not more, than our house.  But it kept us out of the cold, and I didn't have to drive (and worry about doing something wrong), and so I was thankful.

I take awesome "selfies."  See the inside of my nose?

I hopped out of the tractor at the high school, as it is pretty much at the end of the parade route.  I offered to let Jauna and her family thaw out in my minivan, while I crammed in my in-law's little SUV with the 6 of them.  When the parade ended, Rick and Kim took 3 the girls back to the house while Emma and I took Jauna's family back to her car.

Cookies With Mrs. Claus

After a late night of travel, Ryan was up early to head down to the high school.  The FFA was hosting the community event Cookies with Mrs. Claus.  Ryan put a couple of people on the job of getting ready on Friday while we were out of town, and they did a great job.  (That's not to say that Ryan hadn't spent HOURS beforehand, because he did.  And I did help too, as I was the reason we were gone the day before his big shindig.)  

When the girls and I arrived, it was in full swing.

 We grabbed our cups of frosting, two cookies per kid, and found a table.

 Then we headed over to say hi to Santa and Mrs. Claus.

When we were done, the kids went into the library and watched a movie, while I took pictures and chatted with people. 

The cheer leaders and dance team also helped out.

Once we were all cleaned up, we headed home to gear up for the parade.

The Funeral

 Yesterday was Grandpa's funeral.  We left in the morning, drove over the mountains and arrived at the church building a little over an hour before the funeral started.  The church building was sadly locked, and the weather was sadly below freezing.  But the kids' legs were needing some exercise, so we did laps around the empty building.  People showed up to bring food for the funeral, and we offered to let them leave it in our van so they didn't have to hang around.

Sometime after Grandma and her entourage arrived, someone with keys found their way over and let us in.

While Grandma, Aunt Linda, and my mom set up, we found the restrooms and changed into our church clothes-  Ryan by himself in the men's room, and the four girls and me in the ladies' room.

I got to give the eulogy, which was first up on the program.  Janelle sang, my mom, Nichole's husband Jake, Nancy, and my Grandma spoke.  It was a long funeral, but how do you do justice to the life of a man who lived over 90 years and touched so many.

After the funeral, the ward provided us a nice spread of fruit and vegetable platters, and desserts.  Those of us with small children let them run around crazy in the cultural hall (well, within reason- they had all done well sitting quietly during the funeral).  I was accosted by people claiming they knew me, and I had to dig deep to remember names.  My old dentist from when I was in elementary school.  My mom's friend from before I started school.

Grandma put together a whole display of pictures of Grandpa's life.  There were three different poster boards, and a 3 ring binder of pictures either Grandma drew/painted, or pictures of his jewelry pieces.

The flower display was reminiscent of Denmark's flag.  We each got to take a carnation home.

And on a rather unrelated note- driving through the mountain pass made our minivan filthy.  This was after heading west, with the trip back home still ahead of us.

You are greatly missed, Grandpa.

Purplicious

Maddie likes purple.  She likes it best when she can wear purple from head to toe.

The Little Angels

Today, I was ready when Emma and Elizabeth came home from school.  I had clothes picked out, the light checked, and cookies ready as a bribe for good behavior.

And.... these are the faces the kids gave me.

Nice.

I did get a couple of good shots.

This was the final product.  It goes out as a Christmas card later this week.

We had some fun playing with the photo with picmonkey.com

The kids did this one while I was making dinner.

Kissing Ball

I keep seeing cute kissing balls on Pinterest.  Today, I decided to make one for myself, and it was entirely free.  I used a styrofoam ball that I'd used for another project (ripped the old, dusty crepe paper flowers off first), and went around the yard cutting bits of still-green plants, and some pieces off the Christmas tree.  (Those were the branches that had to be cut off so it would fit in the tree stand.)  I stabbed the bits of greenery in the ball, went back outside for more clippings.....  And voila!